Nannies and Babysitters Remember....
To all of the wonderful nannies and babysitters out there, though you may love the children you care for, and engage them all day long, remember that their parents who have been working hard all day too will want to enjoy pleasant homecomings. Try to have toys picked up, faces and hands clean, and only light snacks late in the afternoon.
You don't need to be the "maid" unless housekeeping is part of your agreed upon duties. But, you should get the children to help if they are old enough, and pick up the toys shortly before the parents are due to arrive home. It is frustrating for parents to come home to a mess after they have put in a full day at work.
Next, if the children have been playing outside, finger painting, or getting themselves dirty or messy any other way, try to have their faces and hands washed before mom and dad come through the door. When parents are separated from their children all day long, many of them can't wait to get home and give their kids a great big hug and kiss. The parents will certainly appreciate not having to wash paint, dirt, etc. off their children's hands and faces before being able to hug and kiss them.
Finally, be considerate of meal times even if you won't be there. Find out what time the family usually eats dinner. If it is relatively soon after you leave, then be sure to only allow light snacks late in the afternoon. Being thoughtful and considerate of homecoming time each day will only make the parents appreciate you more!
Comments
John Ho
Understanding Personalities for Better Influence & Persuasion (blog)
Understanding Personalities for Better Influence & PersuasionIf I win the lottery (unlikely since I don't play it) I'm going to fly you over for one-to-one coaching with the local babysitters.
It's excellent that you're thinking all this stuff through so well, so that others can read, take note, and make things better!
Philip Graves [Consumer Behaviour Expert]
The Consumer Behaviour Research Resource
This is what comes from being on both sides of the coin. I was a pretty good babysitter before I had kids. But once I had kids and had to hire babysitters, I quickly learned the difference between a good babysitter and a great babysitter! Now I know what matters to the parents, not just the kids. I'm writing an e-book for the sitters this time. It is mostly complete but of course completing it is the biggest hurdle. Thanks for your comments.
Lisa McLellan
Child Care Expert
What excellent and thoughtful advice Lisa!
Sue Crutcher, Baby Steps to Success Expert